Date My Friends
Meet my Jewish, 30-something year-old, single friends:
(Names have been changed for privacy)
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June
Down to Earth, Loyal, Nurturing
June is ride-or-die; Always up for an adventure and so laid back. Her calming presence and joyful good nature make spending time together easy.
Two years ago for Halloween, June and I went as Cookie Monster and a cookie. She very happily wore a bright blue onesie, consistent with her cozy and comfortable vibe.
Good topics: Friends (the tv series), Classical Music, Her Cat Poppy, Broadway Shows, N*SYNC
My unsolicited opinion: June needs a man who is incredibly down-to-earth and positive. Someone who is family-oriented and a bit of a homebody. Bonus points if you love Thai food and/or are a good cook.
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Golda
A Natural Leader, Kind, A Gatherer
If it’s your birthday, Golda will be the one to bring party hats and a sash. She is a natural Balabusta, at her best when she is planning and running events.
She recently organized a group trip to the Apollo Amateur Night, complete with dinner at Harlem Shake beforehand. Needless to say, it was a great time!
Good topics: NYC Events, Jewish Organizations, HIIT Training, Travel
My unsolicited opinion: Golda needs a man who enjoys good food and good company. Someone who loves being surrounded by friends and family, and enjoys taking advantage of all the cool events around NYC.
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Roberta
Fun, Outspoken, Vibrant
Reserved at first, once Roberta comes out of her shell she is a true character. Career-oriented and ambitious, and with a sporty side, she recently picked up tennis as a hobby. She loves a good hike and hopes to find someone with who me she will enjoy rustic escapes like wineries and glamping.
Her brutal honesty and distinctive voice is hilarious and lovable, you always know exactly where she stands. She is dynamic and spirited, she recently had 9 of us cracking up around the dinner table on a girls trip.
The quickest way to Roberta’s heart is through her sweet tooth!
Good topics: the book she is currently reading, true crime podcasts, tennis, her minimalist pallet
Welcome!
Hey! I’m Shay! Thanks for your interest in dating my friends!
If you are a nice Jewish boy looking for a serious relationship with an awesome Jewish gal, I’m glad you’re here!
SEEKING
Nice Jewish Men. Just good people. Guys who can hang, who are respectful and fun.
Mid to late 30s. Ideally based in NYC, or close enough to attend frequent events in the city.
Most importantly, a man who will see this as an opportunity to befriend some great women, maybe one of whom will end up being someone special.
HOW IT WORKS
Read the bios.
If you are interested in meeting one or more of my friends, click “Meet ____” and fill out the form.
You and I have a quick (less than 10 minute) phone call (vibe check).
If you pass the vibe check, I invite you to hang with everyone (it will be a big group setting and there will be other men there).
Once you arrive, I personally introduce you to whomever you are most excited to meet.
You take it from there! Get to know everyone, we’re a fun crew and you never know who you might hit it off with!
A bit more about my friends…
Each of these women is bright, fun and family-oriented. We don’t take ourselves too seriously, which is why we’re always having fun. We celebrate the little things and we’re supportive when life gets hard.
These are women who DO things. We plan events, attend Shabbat dinners, see shows, take roadtrips, and much more. We are varying levels of observant, but together we feel very in touch with our Jewish identity.
We are also fiercely supportive of each other. Whether it’s a birthday, promotion, or procedure, we love to celebrate and support one another.
We all met within the last two years through a Jewish adult summer camp. One of the craziest things about our friendship is that we didn’t know each others’ ages or professions until waaaaayyy after we became friends. So, in that spirit, I will not share their ages or professions. I will tell you that they all have great jobs, are between the ages of 32 and 38, and live in nyc.
I have included 3 adjectives and a story about each to help you get to know her. As well as some good conversation topics to help get you started.
Names have been changed for privacy.
FAQs
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Thanks for asking - I have a problem. I consider myself lucky to be part of a solid group of friends, all women in their 30s. They are uplifting, hilarious, intelligent, beautiful, adventurous women, and many of them are single. I am in a relationship.
I can no longer sit idly by while I watch my empirically amazing friends navigate the awful online dating world (you know what I’m talking about…)
Plus, I want to do fun couples stuff with them. So I am using my digital marketing skills to set them up.
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Yes and no. I want each of my friends to find their person. If this increases their chances, I am more than happy to facilitate!
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I see why you might think that, but no.
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It’s a fair question, and I really don’t know the answer. We are very ambitious and have devoted time and energy to our careers, hobbies, and side hustles.
Also, these are successful, down-to-earth women looking for genuine, good men. That is really hard to find (I hope if you are reading this you are a one of the few genuine good men out there!)
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We do! We have a huge group of friends, many of whom are men, and they’re great! I met my boyfriend in this friend group, but not everyone had the same experience.
So if you don’t hit it off with any of these women, maybe at the very least you’ll meet some new bros.
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Nope. I’m looking to introduce nice guys to my friends in person. If that’s not your jam, this might not be for you.
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The goal of the vibe check is really just to make sure you are who you say you are, and that you’re able to have a normal conversation.
Meet My Friends
You're bold. I like you already! If nothing else has worked, might as well try this, right?
I promise this is not a scam, I am a 32-year-old marketing freelancer. I will not use your information for anything other than to set you up with my friends. You can read my bio on my website here: www.heyshayfrey.com.
Please be honest, and don't stress, this is not that serious.